Offering

This is time set aside to understand each other, and how you got here. We pay attention to the role each of you learned to play in the family growing up. We notice how that history still shows up between you now, as adults. Family trauma often goes unspoken for years before it's named, and there's no rush to get there before you're ready. We look at where the pattern started, not just the current conflict, whether that's rivalry, comparison, distance, or an imbalance in who's been taking care of whom. You don't need the right words for it, or agree on what happened. We can start with whatever's actually going on between you now.

It's common for one person to be more ready for this work than the other, or to worry that showing up means placing blame. We'll start wherever you are.

Fees

Sibling and family relationship therapy sessions are weekly, 50 or 75 minutes. My fee is $200 for 50 minutes and $275 for 75 minutes.

I reserve a limited number of low-fee spots for those in financial need. I don't take insurance but can provide the necessary forms for reimbursement, and I accept HSA/FSA payment.